We had about two months between the diagnosis and her surgery. While many aspects of the surgery's invasiveness remained unknown until she was in the middle of it, at least I was aware of all the options and possible scenarios to expect post-surgery. It was time to prepare—something I had been needing. Now that I knew the diagnosis, there were certain aspects I could control, such as taking steps to ensure smooth care while she was in a cast. Excelling in preparations during times like these is where my strengths lie. It was go time, and I shifted into action mode. My husband and I compiled a list of items we felt we needed, and we began our preparations.
Time Off for My Daughter's Procedure
In the meantime, I discussed with my boss the need to take time off for DD’s (Dear Daughter’s) procedure, post-procedure care, and any subsequent appointments. I wanted to address this with my boss as soon as possible, allowing me to plan, prepare, and ensure my job duties were covered during my absence. I feel fortunate to work with a boss and coworkers who not only understand but also support my prioritization of family without any guilt or shame. This team has consistently shown unwavering support, flexibility, and a willingness to step in without hesitation. I am beyond thankful that, despite all that is going on, I haven't had to stress about the thought of quitting, job loss, feeling ostracized by others at work, or worrying that it might affect my performance review, potential promotion, or any other aspect of my professional life. I could truly take the necessary time off to care for and be with my daughter. DD’s doctor said the maximum amount of time I may need to be home with her after the procedure would be two weeks. Consequently, I planned for a full two weeks off.
Daycare Comes Through
Additionally, I got a call from DD’s (Dear Daughter’s) daycare Director that they were more than willing to watch her while she is in a Spica cast. This is a HUGE relief for us and we know we’re lucky that they will continue with her care during these transitions!
Bucket List!
While two months felt like a long wait, we knew it would fly by quickly. So, we created a bucket list of FUN things to do with DD (Dear Daughter) before her surgery—activities we couldn’t easily do once she was in a cast, especially since she loves water, and it was summer!
The Bucket List:
Let her engage in water activities as much as possible:
Let her get dirty as much as possible:
Allow her to play with walking and riding toys as much as possible.
Let her be an active toddler as much as possible.
Allow her to be free as much as possible.
Take a family vacation up north to DD’s grandparents' house on the lake to boat, swim, fish, kayak, and more!
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